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Difficult Women

“It actually doeosn’t take much to be considered a difficult woman.  That’s why there are so many of us.”  Jane Goodall

Thinking about voting Republican?

Read this first:

“Report: Over 900 Women Arrested for Pregnancy Outcomes”, Jessica Valenti

https://jessica.substack.com/p/report-over-900-women-arrested-for

One of the Good Guys, Araminta Hall

Highly recommended. 

Best prologue ever.

“…  you’ll always be a hero, just for doing what a illion women do everywhere every day.” p141

“I realize then that he is never, ever going to understand.  That, in fact, he doesn’t want to understand because it will mean giving up what he wants.”  …

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What Sane Man (fiction from Fighting Words)

She pushed the chair against the wall.  It was a sturdy armed chair; that’s why she preferred this motel.  Then she helped him, still a bit groggy from the drink she’d doctored at the bar, from the doorway to the chair.  Using zip ties—impossible to loosen, let alone break—she lashed his wrists to the …

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Trick Mirror, Jia Tolentino – quotes and comments

from Trick Mirror, Jia Tolentino

I found her opening essay, “The I in the Internet” enlightening:

“Because there were so few search engines [in the 1990s] and no centralized social platforms, discovery on the early internet took place mainly in private, and pleasure existed as its own solitary reward.”  p5 

Interesting …

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Justified (fiction from Fighting Words)

It was inevitable.

By 2035, almost overnight, all of my classes were two-thirds female, one-third male.  We’d finally achieved the critical mass I thought wouldn’t ever happen.   Correction.  I thought wouldn’t happen in time.  I was middle-aged when the most powerful county in the world elected for President not the former Secretary of …

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The Conductor (movie recommendation) and Jarrett (a short story)

I’ve just watched “The Conductor” (tubi tv) about Antonia Brico’s struggle to become a conductor and her eventual creation of the New York Women’s Symphony Orchestra, and watched with dismay the stats at the end … of the top 20%, then top 50%, orchestras, not one has ever had a female conductor.

And …

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Another great read – How to decenter men

https://zawn.substack.com/p/how-to-decenter-men-in-your-life

Chaperones

I used to think chaperones were chaperoning young women, in order to, you know, make sure they didn’t engage in, gasp, any immoral behavior.

Now I think the chaperones were chaperoning the young men, in order to, you know, make sure they didn’t rape the young women.

And I think maybe we …

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Great piece by Kate Manne

“You can teach a man what consent looks like but you can’t force him to care about it.”

https://katemanne.substack.com/p/they-didnt-want-consent?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=950263&post_id=219090886&utm_campaign=email-post-title&isFreemail=true&r=9bras&triedRedirect=true&utm_medium=email

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