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Recommended tv shows

I’ve recently discovered mhzchoice and am delighted by the number of tv shows featuring strong female leads: women who are not sexualized, let alone pornified (sometimes they’re not even pretty; sometimes they’re even old); women whose male colleagues–wait for it–help (without making it infantalizing) rather than complete and sabotage; women who are intelligent and competent.

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Jaded, Ela Lee

Highly recommended!

A few impressive bits:

“I’m minded to pursue the current approach, given the sensitivities in this area, and reassess once we have greater visibility over how the strategy has been received,” Will spoke, baritone and authoritative.

“Urrrr,” Genevieve’s voice grumbled, … “is your Grand Plan of Action that you will carry on as …

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Behind the Looking Glass

Behind the Looking Glass

Behind The Looking Glass is a film about the lives of women whose partners have ‘transitioned’ or want to ‘transition’. While we hear a great deal of “stunning and brave” stories of men, there is a deadly silence when it comes to the stories of the wives or partners. This film …

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Boys will be Boys¸ Clementine Ford

so many choice bits … and this is just a small percentage of what I’ve underlined in my copy …

“…how wonderful it was that men had now increased the time they spent with their children to up to forty minutes a day!  Well, hell, let’s have a fucking parade.”  p7

“A basement dweller getting …

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There must be a disconnect.

I live on a lake in a forest in mid-northern Ontario.  It’s bad enough that people come here to kill animals they have no need to kill, in often painful ways, which they do every weekend all summer long, when the animals are struggling as it is, given what we’ve done to their homes and …

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Fight Like a Girl, Clementine Ford – quotes and notes

“Behind every well-respected man, there’s a woman who probably does his washing [laundry].” p103

“Why is it that men who prioritise adventure and independence over family are called ‘committed bachelors’ and ‘wanderers’ who just can’t be tied down, but women who similarly pursue a life free form burdens are called ‘spinsters’ and ‘cat ladies’ …

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notes and quotes from Victoria Smith’s Hags

“… equivalent numbers of middle-aged men are not getting themselves treated in order to look less angry, aggressive, or miserable.”  p49

“When female bodies deviate from the paths set by male ones, this is till treated as a design flaw …  We need different ways of organizing education, work, and relationships to accommodate specifically female …

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“Thus Saith Eve” by Chris Wind – sensational performance by Deoudone van der Merwe

Covering Viagra, but not contraception

“In response to the “informed consent” bill the Kentucky House passed on January 28th, which requires women to consult a doctor–by video conference or in person–at least 24 hours before having an abortion, Kentucky state representative Mary Lou Marzian proposed a rather tongue-in-cheek bill of her own: a law requiring women to approve their husband’s …

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bear vs man …

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